Love life

First crushes, first kisses, first times… Figuring it all out can be rather confusing. From who to talk with, to what to expect, we’re here to help one another.

We shared a video recently where Jimmy from the 4:01 Show asked a load of questions about having sex for the first time and it kicked off a convo, with comments from lots of people and discussions about what happens the first time you have sex and how to know when you’re ready.

What he’s done now is ask loads of famous faces to share their advice on sex, and dealing with any pressure to have sex. Pixie Lott shares her thoughts along with Neon Jungle, Becca Dudley and more – so watch the video to see what they’re saying! It’s so important to make sure you feel ready before you start having sex – and actually, although it may feel like you’re not mature if you haven’t had sex yet it’s soooooo not like that! It’s actually more mature to wait until you feel ready – that’s the harder thing to do and totally smart. And boys – although the fact that you’re probably thinking about sex a lot makes it seem like it’s super important, you need to take a deep breath and chill. It’ll happen, don’t force it, it’s calm.

Basically, everyone’s got to feel comfortable before sex can happen. Talk to your partner, and make sure you’re both ready. Communication is the key!

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