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Whether school rumours are fuelled by jealousy or boredom or the power of being the person ‘in the know’, reveling in the misery of others is as old as time. Gossip, the dangerous weapon that can ruin reputations and poison relationships, defines who’s in and who’s out.
Grace tried hard not to cry as she stood holding the phone. Two minutes before, she heard from Stacy that Jill and Kim were sure she had the answers to the maths exam before it started, and she was selfish not to share them. It was just a school rumour!
Daisy couldn’t believe it when she was called in to see the headmistress. She couldn’t for the life of her figure out why Mrs. Linden wanted to see her. She was totally shocked when Mrs. Linden asked if it was true that she was thinking of running away from home because she hated her mother’s new boyfriend. She had to explain it was just a school rumour.
When the conversation stopped as Gena approached her table in the cafeteria, she didn’t pay much attention until three of the guys slunk away, leaving Stephanie and Corrina red-faced and embarrassed. It didn’t take much coercing to learn that the boys were talking about how Josh dumped her because she always wanted to get high – another school rumour!
Whether school rumours are fuelled by jealousy or boredom or the power of being the person ‘in the know’, reveling in the misery of others is as old as time. Gossip, the dangerous weapon that can ruin reputations and poison relationships, defines WHO’S IN and WHO’S OUT.
Are all school rumours bad?
According to researchers, everyone begins to gossip almost as soon as we learn to speak. It’s a part of human nature as word of mouth is joined by dozens of magazines, television chat shows, tabloids and now cyber gossip via Facebook, Twitter and blogging.
If you participate in school rumours
Gossip is like fast food…juicy, delicious, and bad for you. If you gossip all the time, your friends might not trust you with their secrets. They might feel you’d sell them out for a good school rumor to tell . Next time, just try walking away. If the person talked about is a friend of yours, stand by her and say you don’t believe it. Don’t repeat it.
If you are the target of a school rumour
While gossip boosts the self-esteem of those spreading it, creating a feeling of intimacy among the ‘in’ group, and serving as an emotional release valve for expressing negative feelings, it doesn’t at all help the person they are talking about.
If you are the subject of a false school rumour:
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